Cougar Singles - Older Women, Younger Men Relationships

by Margrett Dawson Wallace
(Pelham, Georgia USA)


Cougar Singles - Older Women, Younger Men Relationships...

What is a Cougar? Am I a Cougar? Are you a Cougar?...May I share with you...What a Cougar is...

Cougars are Women in their PRIME: independent, sexy and wildly successful. They enjoy men that are youthful, fit with the same zest for life. Cougars are classy, confident women that already possess many of the finer things in life - but now want the young, hot guy to go with it.

What is a Cub?
When women say "all the good guys are taken" it's because they aren't looking in the right place. These men can range from athletes to intellectuals, from technologists to entrepreneurs and all points in between. They can come in all shapes and sizes, but one thing they have in common is their desire for older women.

Cougar Singles:What is a cougar single? Who are they, and what is a "cougar" anyway?

Ever since the term "Cougar" came in to existence it seems as if the dating community has bred off a new kind of relationship. Cougar singles and relationships have been exploding in popularity and have become quite the romantic modern conversation.

Typically 'cougar relationships' are older women who enjoy the company of younger men and visa verse. Although, some might say that it isn't just about age - it's an attitude and perspective. It means being true in the spirit, wise in the mind, and young in the body. Most cougar couples that you come across will say that chemistry, friendship, and communication are the common traits that they have in common.

In the traditional sense of the word however, the male is younger, confident, intellectual, and passionate. Usually he is young in spirit, mind, body, wisdom and information about current events and the world. The younger guy is sometimes referred to as a "cub", but if you ask most real cougar guys they usually don't appreciate the term as much.

The 'real cougar women' will tell you that confidence, passion, communication, friendship, independence, intellectual capacities, and having a zest for life are the qualities of a real cougar woman. Typically they are women who know what they want and have a quest to find someone who can appreciate real friendship and openness. They usually are attracted to younger ( not always ) men who are more ambitious, healthy, insightful, understanding, intellectual, and modernized.

I am a Cougar...Life Unleased..."Never to live this life again"...


What if I am a Black Woman

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Aug 09, 2012
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by: Margrett Dawson Wallace

I am saying that this must have been a "well written" article for it to receive all of these comments.

Renent just commented...ROTFLMAO - I'm just thinking of how all this started because of my whip comment when it really did fit the picture…My response is...No, it never fitted the picture…it only fitted the picture of your SICK MIND.

Renenet, it really started, March 17th,when you tried to convince others of your fake “high consciousness”…neither I, nor the others [with common sense] was taken in by your minerals gifts. I am the only one that is graced in wisdom enough to burst the bubble of your “oneness”. As far as you stating…and I quote…“I still wonder why this Cougar hasn't revealed or unmasked herself to her fellow Jehovah witnesses”…unquote,I am no more of the Jehovah Witness faith as You are of the High Consciousness, therefore, I don’t have to report to religious leaders for guidance…my most high name is Jehovah God. Yes, I am an intellectual Cougar as was explain in the article. Don’t you have any mental intellect to write your own and stop trying to be a flunky ‘top commenter’. When will the real you stand up as a real person and come from behind all of the “masks of high consciousness” bulls**t!

The educational system that I worked for and retired from…is the same as who and what you are now working for...IBM…the ENEMY…both are the same. I evaded that to you in the article/blog “Are you a Divine or Human Being”.

My question is who IS the REAL you? The only name change I had to make was from my maiden name to the sir name of my husband. As far as you getting off the bandwagon as you suggested…you never were on “the bandwagon”…so as of this comment , whoever you are…you are officially off the bandwagon, because you were never in MY LEAGUE. Now who is the real person...Annoymous, Renenet, Val Pumps, or Corrinna?
Aug 09, 2012
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by: Renenet Sekemet

ROTFLMAO - I'm just thinking of how all this started because of my whip comment when it really did fit the picture. I still wonder why this Cougar hasn't revealed or unmasked herself to her fellow Jehovah witnesses or the eductional system she proudly works for... who IS the REAL person?
Aug 09, 2012
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star 		no need to hop on the bandwagon
by: Val Pumps

If you simply do a web search for "Val Pumps" you will find http://valpumps.tumblr.com/ where I express myself through my words and various photos. You will not however, find a suggestion box. Thank you.
Aug 09, 2012
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star 		no need to hop on the bandwagon
by: Val Pumps

If you simply do a web search for "Val Pumps" you will find http://valpumps.tumblr.com/ where I express myself through my words and various photos. You will not however, find a suggestion box. Thank you.
Aug 09, 2012
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by: Dr. JJ

To the new comment by Val Pumps...that asked "Do you feel at peace when you refer to anyone as a "punk ass"? Yes, why not? When one's written expressions suggest of another writer's expressions that would leave one to suggest the "use of a whip" when a whip had nothing to do with being a cougar". So the writer told them that they were responding as dumb punk-asses...telling them that their comments were those that described one who is stupid, obnoxious, and deserves a good ass kicking. Might I ask you to look up the defination(s) of punk-asses. Did your inner voice tell you to respond in such a way to suggest that you have control over what is expressed in one’s writing(s). What have you written? As a fellow reader of "your-inner-voice.com" this article and comment chain didn't induce happiness in my spirit. Stop being "only a partaker (reader) and let your spirit write".
Aug 08, 2012
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by: Val Pumps

Do you feel at peace when you refer to anyone as a "punk ass"? Does your inner voice tell you to be a Cougar? If so, I am happy and supportive of that endeavor, however, as a fellow reader of "your-inner-voice.com" this article and comment chain didn't induce happiness in my spirit.
Jul 13, 2012
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starstarstarstarstar 		You Got The Real Whip, my lady
by: John Ross 4Baldwin Co Commissioner

Ms. Margrett, I love your response to "The Whip." It is very clear to me you got the "real whip." The spiritual intellectual whip of creation that surpasses all blocks --age, fears, race, gender, familial status and sexuality. You got it all. Whip me! Whip me, anytime:-)
Jul 13, 2012
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by: Anonymous

Wow, this photo says it all, the submissive feelings I had reading this,,, thank you,,,siesta
Jul 13, 2012
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starstarstarstarstar 		French Serenity
by: Anonymous

Oh my! So classic, so classy,so dark,so lovely, so sexy! Stunning. This is absolutely stunning.
Jul 13, 2012
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starstarstarstarstar 		Offering of "Whips" for Queen Mother Cougar
by: Margrett Dawson Wallace

Connotation of whips suggests that one must use it [the whip] to: en-slave, enlighten, and/or to inform, as [your] masters did to keep you enslaved. This cougar has always used her whips to inform, bringing those that come into her path from ignorance to intelligence; from have-nots to have something or nothing; unknown to known; from entering to learn to depart to serve one’s fellow- man in this troubled world. Do not mistake the wearing of the boots as some freakish connotation…to be associated with whips. If I have to…I am well able and capable of whipping your “dumb-ass”, but I chose to be the “Accomplished Cougar” that I am, to help “Lift the Veil of Ignorance” of my people. Therefore, I am privileged to say…thank you “punk-asses for your suggested comments…of offering the use of whips”. If you can’t help [others in this world]; don’t hinder [me from doing so]…Never to live this life again…
Jul 12, 2012
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by: Renenet Sekhmet

Your Kenya whips are nice colorful horse tail whips. I'm offering her my Leather...may I suggest Queen mother try both types to let me know which works best!
Jul 12, 2012
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by: Art

How do you like my horse hair whips from Kenya? Horse tail whips from Kenya and let's have some fun...
Jul 12, 2012
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by: Renenet Sekhmet

YOu go girl! You're welcome to borrow one of my whips anytime as long you return it...
Jul 12, 2012
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by: Art

What an inspiration! So many of our older women, wise, capable... waste themselves away trying to be "mission impossible", men too. We lose valuable assets, all because of false expectations and living in fear. BRing them back to life Margrett.

AGe is just another form of discrimination, another weapon we have formed against us. Enjoy and make the best of this and your life while you can...

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