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Sex and Sexuality
I do not know much, but I believe I know when I or someone else has constituted a sexual act
I would actually say, "Not so far as a thought constitutes a sexual act?
But I have a friend who says otherwise. They say a clothed female "playing" with a naked male does not constitute a sexual act. Couldn't blame her huh!
They justify this because there was not penal penetration and all that other stuff that goes with traditional sex. So I thought I would write about this just to see for myself. Have things changed all that much? Am I that far off?
If a Priest is fondling a little boy, with a stick or any other kind of way, whether the little boy consents or not, is clothed or naked, this is a sexual act – sexual abuse? Have fun but don’t get the shit twisted.
Bold, in-your-face sex and sexuality, the only thing here is you must be able to recognize the signs.
West coast east coast or foreign country, imagine somebody, small town to a larger city, the things they would now be exposed to and sex would be one of them. If you accepted an invitation to go with someone home, especially of the opposite sex, and once you got there, one of the two got undressed and started playing, would not that constitute a sexual act? Is foreplay a sexual act?
Well, if you were hiding the whole thing from your spouse, you probably would not describe it as sex. However, if your spouse got wind of it, more than likely that act would be described, under the umbrella of sex and as a form of sex. With whomever you were having this conversation; it would have to be about sex. Not having sex would be your argument and being in a sexually compromising position would put you in an awkward position to argue.
I am not saying you should not do these things, but do understand, I do not care what coast you are on or country you are in; a woman having a good time playing with a naked man in the privacy of their home is going to be the epitome of a sexual act and rightfully so. How else will you get to intercourse?
Now, for the purposes of discouraging intercourse, someone may have said... Excuses, whether you did or not, does not remove the fact that what you all were doing was sexually orientated and motivated, which is a form of sex. That’s like two women or men playing, though it was not traditional sex, it was sex, just kinky.
You are choosing the best means to avoid scrutiny from yourself and others. The real question is, did the two of you do anything wrong?
And I can tell you another thing: If you are engaging in these acts with more than one person, while in relationship with these same folk; you are engaging in sexual acts with multiple partners. Because you ain't got all of them in the same place, at the same time, you are still banging all of them, while in relationship. Its like cheating on your girlfriend. Do you really think having your clothes on or off makes the difference?
What are you teaching? What about everybody together, being accepting, supportive, affectionate, relaxed, joyful, effective, unified and satisfied? Those are the results of a good sexual act.
Why play with yourself, is that a sexual act? So what about those who are constantly concerned about what others may think and say? Can you perform as well? Frugality?
Like releasing an arrow restrained for too long, it is anxious to escape closed minds, constant scrutiny and all of the frustration of people. Move to a higher perspective and accept things for what they really are.
Whether or not we ever engage in a sexual relationship, from birth to death we are sexual beings. Our feelings and fantasies, keep harking that beck and call.
We are all sexual all of the time and learning is a lifelong experience.
(((your inner voice.com)))
